One thing I wish had never happened is the death of my aunt. She died before I was born when she was only twenty. I don't think anyone has truly recovered. I do not even know how she died, because the grief still hurts so much that no one in my family ever talks about her. I think that if my aunt hadn't died, my family would be happier, and I wouldn't have lost an older, wiser, loving friend who I could have confided in.